Alright, lovebirds, let’s talk about wedding mornings!

Whether you’re planning a big celebration or an intimate elopement, how you start your day can make ALL the difference. And as an Auckland wedding photographer (hi, I’m Sellie from Wonder and Bloom Photography—your personal hype girl with a camera!), I can promise you that a calm, fun morning leads to the most natural, beautiful photos.

Let’s dive into some simple ways to start your big day feeling relaxed, present, and totally ready to soak it all in.

1. Slow Down & Soak It In

This day will fly by—so give yourself the gift of a slow morning. Set your alarm a little earlier, sip your coffee (or mimosa, no judgment), and take your time getting ready. No rushing, no stress—just excitement! Trust me, these little moments make for the best candid photos.

2. Surround Yourself with Good Vibes Only

Your wedding morning should feel like a warm hug, not a stressful checklist. Whether it’s your bridal party, your mum, or just your partner (for my elopement couples!), make sure you’re with people who make you feel good. Positive energy = a happy start to the day.

3. Pick a Pretty Space

Okay, photographer tip incoming! If possible, get ready in a bright, tidy space with natural light—it makes a huge difference in your getting-ready photos. Even if you’re eloping in a cute little cabin or a mountaintop Airbnb, keeping the space uncluttered lets YOU shine in the photos.

4. Capture the Little Details

Those gorgeous flat-lay shots of rings, vow books, and sentimental keepsakes? They don’t just happen magically! Take a moment to lay out anything special that you want in your photos—jewelry, perfume, a love note from your partner. These tiny touches tell your wedding story beautifully.

5. Pump Up the Tunes

Set the vibe with a killer playlist! Whether you’re into soft acoustic, throwback R&B, or full-on dance party mode, music is the best way to set the tone. And yes, I will 100% dance along if you invite me.

6. Don’t Forget to Eat & Hydrate!

I know, I know—nerves, excitement, a million things happening. But trust me, you do not want to feel faint mid-ceremony. A light, nourishing breakfast and plenty of water = glowing skin and happy energy levels. (Bonus: hydration makes your makeup look even better!)

7. Take a Moment for Yourself

Before the day takes off, pause. Breathe. Say a prayer, journal, or simply step outside for a few quiet minutes. If you’re eloping, maybe take a sunrise walk together or have a coffee date before getting dressed—these quiet, emotional moments make for the most heartfelt photos.

8. First Look Feels

First looks aren’t just for couples! You can do one with your parents, your besties, or even your dog (seriously, I’d love to photograph that). And if you’re eloping, imagine a first look with the most epic New Zealand landscape behind you—literal magic!

9. Trust Your Vendors & Enjoy the Ride

You’ve done the planning—now let your team take over. Your vendors (including me, your New Zealand wedding photographer!) are here to make sure everything runs smoothly. So breathe, relax, and soak up every single second of this once-in-a-lifetime day.

10. Don’t Skip the Getting-Ready Photos!

The morning is part of your wedding story, and trust me, you’ll want these moments documented. The excited nerves, the deep breaths, the happy tears—this is the start of your next chapter. Whether you’re getting ready in a luxury bridal suite or in a cosy cabin before an elopement, I’ll be there capturing all the magic. Wonder and Bloom Photography travels wherever you need!